Why Boys Fail

I was just turned on to a new book titled “Why Boys Fail: Saving Our Sons from an Educational System That’s Leaving Them Behind” by this article in the NY Times. I’m downloading the Kindle version to my iPod so I have it with me wherever I go. Based on what I’ve read so far, it should be required reading for every school teacher and school administrator.

My son struggled in a public Kindergarten classroom because of his teacher’s bias against boys. On several occasions he came home from school with a “red card” because he acted out in a way his teacher considered inappropriate. When he told me what he did, I laughed because my view was that he was just being a boy.

Boys aren’t given any outlet for their pent up energy and that causes them to fidget and appear inattentive in class. Whatever happened to playing “cowboys and indians” or “cops and robbers” on the playground? Why can’t they play touch football games at recess anymore? Boys will occasionally knock each other down or tackle each other on the playground. That’s not a reason for harsh discipline. Get up and dust yourself off, shake hands and walk away. No blood, no foul.

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  • http://facebook.com April

    Excellent Jason! Times have certainly changed. So much pressure is put on young kids to sit at a desk. I'm just happy you're not medicating him for being a boy!

    • http://facebook.com/jason.trommetter Jason

      I don’t think medication should ever be an option. The motto of every hyperactive child should be “I can’t help it, the world’s not keeping up with me!”

      • http://facebook.com Auburn

        Amen to that. Thanks Mark Lowry for saying that in a song. Affectionately know by our son as the Hypernosis Song.

  • http://facebook.com Doris

    While my daughter was considered disruptive for not sitting meekly and quietly, but instead speaking up for herself.

  • http://facebook.com/jason.trommetter Jason

    I think things will be very different next year at AJ Whittenberg Elementary School of Engineering. Everything I've heard so far convinces me their philosophy will be completely different from what we experienced at Mauldin Elementary. http://bit.ly/ajwhit

  • http://facebook.com Kathy

    I so much dislike the public school system which insists every child be cut out of the same mold….

    • http://facebook.com/jason.trommetter Jason

      I'm not ready to give up on the public school system yet. That's why Auburn and I will be very supportive, very involved parents at AJ Whittenberg for the next 5 years.

    • http://facebook.com Auburn

      Unfortunately so many public schools indoctrinate our children to things we don’t want them to be. And with “relative morality” these days who is capable of making the rules? So what works for me may not work for you or someone else.

      • http://facebook.com Cindy

        Hey…I was a public school teacher for Y~E~A~R~S. And I worked with the ones that didn’t fit in the mold. You HAVE to stay involved…or you could homeschool.

  • http://facebook.com Auburn

    He’s gets bored easily. Home schooling has been very enlightening for me. He’s a very smart boy who doesn’t want to sit still.

  • http://facebook.com Doris

    We are legislating ourselves right out of a free society. The inability of children to play freely is just one symptom.